its true its true and the thing is my sister had a baby and i took it over cos she passed away and the baby lost its legs and its arms and now hes nothin but a stump, but i still take care of it with my wife and its growing..and its fairly happy, but its difficult cos ive been workin the second shift at the factory to put food on the table, but all the love i see in that little guys face makes it worth it in the end... true story !