So much of the media focuses on the aggressor, but what about the victims. What about their families and the things left behind in the destruction of grief. Grief is not clean its messy and for many, time just stops. What kind of effect does that have on ur psyche to try to find the positive and say life is worth living but you see horrible things, children dying. You wonder is it really? Violence should be shown for what it is. Its ugly, its messy, its not controlled or put together, and whats left behind isnt composed or easily put together again. We should show the effects and maybe it'll dissuade someone from hurting others. Lights left on for people who won't come home. The rooms are left a mess because they expected to come home. They now stay a mess.