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전체 공개 ・ 02.14

2026.02.13 (Fri)
Another Valentine’s Day, and I’m single. I don’t know whether to feel proud for “obeying” my parents or just quietly lonely. Maybe both. Today my mom gave me a three-hour lecture about how love destroys careers. My dad has made it clear he would disown me if I ever went against their expectations. And my grandmother casually talks about marrying me off in my late teens like I’m some life goal she wants to tick off. It’s strange .... being spoken about like a future event instead of a person. I don’t want to be rushed into someone else’s timeline. I don’t want my life to be managed like a project plan. I want loyalty. I want someone who stands beside me in my worst moments, not just a marriage arranged to satisfy tradition. Right now, the only person in my family I feel safe leaning on is my mom. And even then, it feels complicated. I’m still figuring out what I believe about love... But I know this: my life is not a deadline... My heart is not a family obligation... And I deserve the right to choose when .. and if... I love. For now, I’m choosing myself...though it stingss

coleing
02.14
men are pigs and liars and perverts specially the ones who take the "moral high ground" and "religous", time and time again I'm still shocked by this specially when I come to trust a man because he's a decent human being turns out another pervert that will ruin your life and ruin your finances, I'm 31 this year, now if you want a relationship with a woman then that's another story. focus on getting a degree and make money even if that's lonely because it will be, then after you have the money to be your safety net when life turns to shit, then go out there find someone who match your freak ❤

leleyan
02.14
But for now, i think we should focus on getting the license. Regarding the partnership they want, don't let it get to you 😩 The one you choose as a partner solely depends on you. For the parents, we've been good, we didn't enter such relationship just as they wanted, graduated, didn't do illegal stuff...i think it's just right that they would be handsoff na for our partners

leleyan
02.14
Sending hugss❤️🩹 actually, my parents still don't want me to be in a relationship also...i didn't get to experience puppy love, or highschool romance, even now i have graduated college. Tbh, i truly want one. But I'm such a complex person in mind and in heart, maybe because i feel guilty on trying to enter one when my parents still have a leash on my neck. Honestly, it does get lonely most of the time. But on the brighter side, I'm an introvert so i prefer solitude but then again I'm a hopeless romantic too😩😩😩